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Co-parenting 101: Be a Parent, Not a Friend

Co-parenting after divorce or separation is about being a parent. It’s not about becoming your child’s friend. Your children did not have a say in your decision. And they can’t do anything about what has happened. They are essentially along for the ride. As difficult as your divorce, breakup, or separation may be for you, […]

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Relationship Deal Breaker? Financial Deceit

Financial deceit in a relationship is incredibly toxic but usually best addressed through honest communication. But in our more than 20 years of handling North Carolina divorce cases in Johnston, Harnett, and Wake Counties, we know this is not always possible. We’re often contacted by spouses who suspect their partner is hiding or lying about […]

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Relationship Deal Breaker? Emotional and Physical Abuse

As family lawyers in Johnston, Harnett, and Wake County, North Carolina, we, unfortunately, encounter abusive relationships far too often. Regardless if you’re a male or female and whether it involves emotional abuse or physical violence, this behavior should never be allowed, and you should seek help immediately. We understand this is a difficult time, and […]

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Relationship Deal Breaker: Adultery

Adultery can cause terrible pain in a marriage and is often considered the ultimate relationship deal-breaker. In our more than 20 years of handling North Carolina divorce cases in Johnston, Harnett, and Wake Counties, we know how devastating infidelity can be. However, you should be aware of some important legal aspects of adultery before moving […]

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5 Reasons You Shouldn’t Trust an Alimony Calculator

When you are going through or thinking about a divorce, your mind may turn to alimony. Spousal support is a serious issue, particularly if your spouse makes more money or you have been a stay-at-home parent for years. You may truly need alimony to get on your feet or maintain your and your children’s lifestyle […]

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How Divorced Parents Should Split Holidays

Working out a parenting plan can be challenging. Once you’ve figured out a regular schedule, you also need a plan for sharing holidays. Holidays are emotional times, so splitting them can be hard. It can also be confusing to understand how a holiday schedule affects your regular parenting schedule. The North Carolina family lawyers at […]

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North Carolina Divorce FAQ: Are Divorce Records Public?

Couples who file for divorce often experience a great deal of stress during the process. It’s probably a very emotional time, and you may want to maintain your privacy by keeping this painful part your life out of public view. However, like most court documents, NC divorce records are a matter of public record. If […]

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What Does “Best Interest of the Child” Mean in NC Child Custody Cases?

Like family courts, across the US, North Carolina makes decisions about child custody and visitation cases based on what’s in the best interest of the child. This generally means what benefits the child more, but when it comes to custody orders, modifications, and visitations agreements between parents, it leaves a lot of room for interpretation. […]

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When to Call Witnesses in Your Divorce

There are several reasons why you may want to call a witness in your divorce, and you are typically allowed to do so. But calling witnesses should be done carefully and for a purpose. After all, you don’t want to parade your friends and family members into court to talk about your marriage if you […]

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Can My Ex Get Half My Pension? Retirement Assets in North Carolina

You and your spouse were likely planning on a long life together, including your retirements. But divorce changes all of that, and it’s an important financial aspect of ending a marriage. What Happens to My Pension During a Divorce in NC? One or both of you may have retirement savings, like IRAs, 401(k)s, and pensions. […]

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